Author Archives: Brandon

The End of Me

Have you ever just wanted to drop the “It isn’t fair” card with God?  Have you ever felt like a chess piece in some cosmic game?  I know I have.  I think all of us come to the feeling of “the end of me.”  “The End of Me,” is a feeling of pure stuck.  You have done all you know to do for good and to be faithful and hoping God would meet you halfway at least only to feel like you are trying to run in mud or swim against the current.

I have just finished reading through Job in a Chronological Bible.  Most of the book is written from Job being at the end of himself and some thick headed friends that offer little help.  Behind the scenes, God and Satan are using Job to prove they are right.  Before the wager of God and satan, Job was found faithful to the Lord.  Satan said it was only because he walked in the full blessing of the Lord in his family, health, influence, and finances. Job has no control over the direction of his life and we read the story watching his response.  Many conversations happen with Job and his friends before God speaks.  Job has accused God of being unfair. 

A young prophet finally speaks into the situation with what seems to be a harsh response…

Job 36:26 “Look, God is greater than we can understand.
    His years cannot be counted.
27 He draws up the water vapor
    and then distills it into rain.
28 The rain pours down from the clouds,
    and everyone benefits.
29 Who can understand the spreading of the clouds
    and the thunder that rolls forth from heaven?
30 See how he spreads the lightning around him
    and how it lights up the depths of the sea.
31 By these mighty acts he nourishes the people,
    giving them food in abundance.
32 He fills his hands with lightning bolts
    and hurls each at its target.
33 The thunder announces his presence;
    the storm announces his indignant anger

Job is reminded if God is really in control and has allowed him into this mess, then God would be the one who can get him out.  Job does what many of us do.  He tries to make God like him. That God would be corrupt, evil, or alluf. Then Job remembers God’s faithfulness and humbles himself before the Lord.  Then the Lord blesses him with more than he had before and restore in abundance the blessing. 

Where do you think God is unfair, but God is looking for you to be faithful and obedient?  Who are we to accuse the one who holds lightning bolts and mercy in His hand?  Where did we get off thinking we deserve breath, hope, and salvation?  What if “the end of me” is actually the beginning of the richness of blessing He wants to give?  What if you need to grow your view of God and find your identity in Him?

So I pray “the end of me” over both of us today!

Recklessly, obsessively following Jesus

Brandon Sereg

Gratitude

I recently met with a friend who was really frustrated with their place of work.  They shared how discouraged they were in the expectations put on them and how the overall culture is overworked and those that work the longest are the most celebrated. Seeing the negative impact on himself and several that had decided not to work there, he decided he wasn’t sure he wanted to work there.

This Sunday, at his church they preached on writing a list of things they are grateful for. He was led by the Lord to write things about his work.  It was not hard for him to make the list.  He read the list outloud and it softened his heart toward his work.  He went from ready to consider quitting to grateful for his opportunity.

I think all of us can relate with his frustration.  It might not be a job, but a person or a group of people.  So I want you to do something.  I want you to write down one person or thing in your life that really frustrates you. Really stop reading and write it down. 

1 Thessalonians 5:18 Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus.

Next I want you to write down 7 things about that person or thing that you are thankful for about them or it. Don’t say, “I have nothing.”  There is something.  Take the time to let it be deeply personal.  Now read it outloud.  Read it again before you see that person or go to that job and notice how different your attitude is.  

Why?  It is hard to keep a grateful spirit down.  Grateful people are noticed for their genuine smile. They are noticed in how they treat people different.  They are noticed for how the see more than normal people do.  If you were a boss interviewing two equally qualified people, one was grateful and had a smile, the other just didn’t. Who would you hire?  The grateful one… Why we like being around grateful people is because they are fun and light up a room.  They emanate hope. 

So today choose to be grateful. Choose to emanate hope!

Recklessly, obsessively following Jesus

Brandon Sereg

Light in the Darkness

Have you ever thought about writing out your future story?  Maybe you have not written it but thought about what you would like your life to be like later in life.  Those pages and thoughts would be full of great stories, adventures, love, and accomplishments.  However, life doesn’t usually get written that way. 

Everyone of us has a story, two, or years of stories that we would not have written into our story.  Some of those stories are a result of choices we made or friends we spent time with. Others were things that happened to us.  Some of those stories led to resentment towards someone or a group of people.  Others led to deep regret which is resentment turned inward.  Again there is no way we would have written that into our story. 

Joseph (Not Jesus dad) was born into a family of 11 other brothers from 4 mothers and one dad.  Joseph was born into a family where the wifes and brothers fought for Jacob’s attention, affection and position.  In the midst of this Joseph starts having dreams from God about being put in position over his dad and older brothers.  Like many young men he shares this dream and his brothers hate him for it.  

The brothers conspire to kill him but don’t want the guilt of his death.  So they sell him into slavery to the Egyptians.  I am sure that was not apart of Joseph’s dream. However in slavery, he is loved by his master.  Then his master’s wife offers herself to him, he refuses.  She becomes angry and accuses him of rape.  So Joseph goes to jail for a crime he didn’t commit. 

In jail, he is loved by the warden and is put in charge of the whole prison. In prison, he meets some people who have some dreams.  Joseph interpreted those dreams.  One person who got an interpretation, goes to work for pharaoh.  However, he is forgotten.  

His story changes when pharaoh has a dream and the man remembers Joseph can interpret dreams. That day he is brought before pharaoh and impresses pharaoh so much he is made 2nd in command of all Egypt. Later his brothers show up and Joseph confronts them.  

Genesis 50:20 You intended to harm me, but God intended it all for good. He brought me to this position so I could save the lives of many people.

Joseph was able to look through the mess of his life and see God was able to use it.  He even sounds grateful for it.  He was able to see past his pain and hurt.  What about you?  What part of your story do you wish wasn’t there?  What would happen if you invited Holy Spirit to heal and forgive?  What if God could use even the darkest stories to reveal His great light?

I challenge you right now to pray and ask God to highlight one moment from your past, and ask Him to heal, forgive, and use it for for His glory.  I want to let you know doing this does hurt, often very deeply.  But when you watch God use that story to help someone else it will all be worth it!

Recklessly, obsessively following Jesus

Brandon Sereg

Build on the ROCK

2000 years ago, two men move to a desert near a river.  One man wants to grow his new business quickly and builds his house like every other man.  He builds it right on top of the sand.  The second man builds his house on a rock.  Everyone said it was not necessary and mocked him for having such a high unnecessary standard.  A couple years pass by and a storm hits.  The banks of the river flood and now both houses have water in them  Both families respond by getting on their houses. Soon the man who built his house on the sand recognises that his house will not hold and his whole family is in danger.  He gets his family off their house right before the collapse and joins the family who built on the rock.

How often has that been the story of our lives?  We build friendships, finances, health, entertainment or many other things only to find out its value in the midst of a storm. 

john-hult-58894.jpgMatthew 7:24 “Anyone who listens to my teaching and follows it is wise, like a person who builds a house on solid rock. 25 Though the rain comes in torrents and the floodwaters rise and the winds beat against that house, it won’t collapse because it is built on bedrock. 26 But anyone who hears my teaching and doesn’t obey it is foolish, like a person who builds a house on sand. 27 When the rains and floods come and the winds beat against that house, it will collapse with a mighty crash.”

How to build on the Rock?

  1. Listen to God’s Word

How many of us know that hearing and listening are two very different things?  Someone you have value for or someone you want to learn from, you will listen to.  Others you might hear but will forget what they say quickly.  Listening is leaning in and weighing every word and filtering your beliefs through what is said.  How different would our lives be if we listened to God’s Word.  

2. Follows God’s way

Listening is a powerful first step, but unless you follow what you have learned the impact is considerably stunted.  God does not want you to just know, understand, and agree with His ways, He actually wants you to live this way.  To do this you have to believe that even when what He wants you to do something that does not make sense, His plan is good for you.

3. Build in God’s will

All of us want to know clearly what God’s will is for our lives.  Many Christians want to know God’s will, then they will walk in God’s ways, and maybe they will get in His Word.   Jesus taught something different.  He said first listen to His teaching, then follow His ways, and then you will find yourself in the center of His will.

So what does this mean for you today?  Where have you built your life on the sand?  would it be your relationships? Money? Health?  Career?  Choose one today to focus on rebuilding on God’s will.

Recklessly, obsessively following Jesus

Brandon Sereg

Developed or Discovered

I work with leaders from the age 13-60.  Many of them want positions of authority.  Some have had a lot of leadership experience and some none at all.  The most successful leaders are not the ones that are fighting for position but those who are quick to learn and ask a lot of questions.  They are concerned with being developed.

I am 32 years old this year.  I am reviewing my 20’s and I see a them.  There were times when I tried to prove myself so I would be discovered as a great leader.  Those times were always full of conflict and insecurity.  Then there were times when I was all about being developed, not striving or proving anything.  I recognized my need for growth huge in this time.  I found mentors and leaders who could help me.  I did what they said whether it made sense or not.  I grew a ton! Also, leadership opportunity came my way. 

Jesus was God’s son and Jesus was about 30 when He started his ministry.  Why not 18 after all he is God in flesh.  Joseph was 30 when He was promoted 2nd in command of Egypt, before that he was a slave in Potiphar’s house and a prisoner in a political prison. David was about 30 when He was finally given the role of King of Israel.  All of them had been given a dream years before that. God waited until they were developed before they were given position. 

Can you imaging being Jesus at 25.  You know who you are and the mission you have been called to and you have to wait.  From age 12 – 30 we have one verse.

Luke 2:52 Jesus grew in wisdom and in stature and in favor with God and all the people.

Weird thought isn’t it. Jesus had to grow in wisdom and favor with God.  Jesus needed developed.  Even at 30 he is saying my time hasn’t come.  Can you imagine Mary?  She has a virgin birth, and I am sure everyone believes the engaged pregnant woman saying she has not had sex.  She wants her son discovered for who He is. 

Joseph has a vision of greatness. He tell his family who you would hope supports his dreams, and he gets sold into slavery by his brothers.  If Joseph is to one day lead an Egyptian amy being in the caption of the guards house, in charge of everything in the house.  Maybe God is up to something.  If farmer boy is going to be 2nd in command of the greatest nation on earth, learning politics in a political prison doesn’t seem that far out.  As a prisoner, Joseph is put in charge of the prison. Slavery and a prisoner would not his first choice, but he was developed into who God wanted him to be. 

You might feel stuck in obscurity and that you have not been discovered yet in the dream that God has for you, but God has a tendency to test his people in the place of obscurity to see if they will be humble and be developed or just whine about their circumstances.  God has GREAT THING planned for you life, but He wants you focused on being developed so He can trust you being discovered.  Who is further in the journey that you need to have mentor you?  What job do you have you need to do your very best in?

Go be Vital!

Recklessly obsessively following Jesus

Brandon Sereg

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