Author Archives: Brandon

Live a Better Story- Part 1

Would it be fair to say there is a better story for you life than the one you are living? I think God calls it hope.  There is a better future, the best of my story is yet to come, our best days are ahead and not behind. God wants to bless you in abundance and not scarcity, he wants your cup to overrun with oil!  Now I do not think that necessarily means a Mercedes, bigger house, bigger income, or nicer clothes.  How many of us know people that got bigger and better and it ruined their marriage, cost them their kids, and they lost a lot of friends.  

I also do not think blessing is looking at other peoples lives on facebook, instagram, or how they appear to be at church.  I don’t believe Jesus died so you can impress people you don’t know or even like. In fact when I read the Bible I see God wanting us to live a better story because we find life in 4 places. Today I am going to skim the surface but in the next 4 week, I will dig into each of them a little deeper. 

Make a Difference! You were not made to work your life away so you can provide and play on your days off.  You were made so the generation and the world would be different because you walked the earth.  You were made so when people share about who helped them get where they are, your name is mentioned. You were made to make a difference where no one but God knows, where there is no trophy, recognition, or platitude.  If you are still breathing God is not done!  You are not too far gone, sinned too much, too old, too young, too poor, or too wealthy.  God is bigger than all of that!

Discover Your Purpose!  You cannot make the difference God intended unless you discover the purpose for why you are here.  Young men want to know what to study in college or what career to make. Middle aged men want to know if there is something more than 9-5. Older me want to know if what they did can be passed on or if there is anything left in retirement.  There is! Purpose is different and different seasons, and God reveals it in His time.  Purpose is found in His presence when He downloads holy conviction of making a difference. It is different for everyone.

Find Freedom!  You cannot discover purpose when you are bound to your past, your sin, your addiction, and your shame.  You need freedom for that.  God paid a very high price in His Son for you to know more than just forgiveness.  Confess your sin to God and you are forgiven. Confess your sin to men and you will be healed.  If you are sick as a mature believer for prayer, for their prayer is powerful.  God designed us to not be alone on our spiritual journey but to travel together. You will never be the person God made you to be apart from vulnerability with His people.

Know God!  You cannot find freedom until you know God.  “I met the mayor” and “the mayor is my best friend” are very different.  The first says you who who they are about you know about the mayor.  The second one reveals real relationship.  The will of God for your life is not for you to be religious!  The will of God for you is to know Him. You can not clean yourself up and come to God, you come to God because you need him to clean you up. 

This is getting long… Sorry about that!  I look forward to the next 4 weeks as God leads you to live a better story because you Know God more than ever before, found Freedom in places you didn’t know possible, Discovered Purpose in knowing what you were made to do, and Make a Difference in a way that will really matter.

Helping People Live a Better Story

Brandon Sereg

How to Change the World… part 4

A little over four years ago I bought a house. The ceiling was falling down. The water pipes were broken. The HVAC was broken. Most of the house didn’t have any flooring in it. Oh and it was UGLY!!! Wow it was ugly. The house had been on the market for months. No one wanted it.

I went to go see it and I offered more than they were asking. I bought the house. Then I fixed that house. It has new everywhere! I put it on the market and it was under contract in 36 hours. The house sold for $81,000 more than I put in it. Most people saw a problem, I saw an opportunity.

I wonder how often we see problems and get stuck in our complaining instead of seeing it as opportunity.

Joshua inspected the promised land with 11 other spies. 10 spies saw giants, massive armies, and huge walls. Joshua and Caleb saw an opportunity. The 10 spies gave their report and here is what happened next.

Numbers 14:5 Then Moses and Aaron fell face down on the ground before the whole community of Israel. 6 Two of the men who had explored the land, Joshua son of Nun and Caleb son of Jephunneh, tore their clothing. 7 They said to all the people of Israel, “The land we traveled through and explored is a wonderful land! 8 And if the Lord is pleased with us, he will bring us safely into that land and give it to us. It is a rich land flowing with milk and honey. 9 Do not rebel against the Lord, and don’t be afraid of the people of the land. They are only helpless prey to us! They have no protection, but the Lord is with us! Don’t be afraid of them!”

The 10 spies saw the problem and felt defeated before they even started. Joshua and Caleb saw the problem with God in mind and the problem looked small and the opportunity was great.

The fourth way to change the world is…. See problems as opportunity

When we compare our problems to our abilities it is easy to get defeated. When we look at our problems compared to God we see opportunity.

So what are the greatest problems you are facing now? Write them down… like for real, do it now.

Now compare them to God one at a time. Ask Him what He thinks of your problem. Write that down too! The Lord opened Joshua’s eyes to opportunity that looked like giants, massive armies, and huge walls. May the Lord open your eyes to see as He sees.

Take the opportunity!

Live a Better Story

Brandon Sereg

How to change the world… Part 3

As a teenager, I learned something… My parents did not have a clue!  They said the world worked a certain way, and my friends showed me different. I got in trouble for rolling my eyes all the time.  Even if I didn’t roll my eyes talking to them, my attitude was the same.  They told me my girlfriend of 2 weeks didn’t love me. They told me the friends I choose were trouble.  They told me popularity was fleeting and a total waste of pursuit. 

They helped me buy a car and gave me an allowance.  So if I did not obey them, they would pull my keys, ground me from friends, and not let me go to places that would grow my popularity.  They were killing my image.  However, I wanted to drive and have cash so I obeyed.

I had a vision for my life.  It was full of popularity, pretty girls, and fame.  My parents had a different vision. It was full of loving God, a future of education, and a marriage to a christian girl.  So I gave in and submitted to their vision, because the consequence of not was too great.

15 years later, my vision was a waste of time.  My parent vision was so much better.  I am soglad I submitted to their vision.

Here is the 3rd way to change the world…

Serve someone else’s vision

Exodus 17:10 So Joshua did what Moses had commanded and fought the army of Amalek. Meanwhile, Moses, Aaron, and Hur climbed to the top of a nearby hill. 11 As long as Moses held up the staff in his hand, the Israelites had the advantage. But whenever he dropped his hand, the Amalekites gained the advantage. 12 Moses’ arms soon became so tired he could no longer hold themup. So Aaron and Hur found a stone for him to sit on. Then they stood on each side of Moses, holding up his hands. So his hands held steady until sunset. 13 As a result, Joshua overwhelmed the army of Amalek in battle.

Joshua changed the world.  Before he led Israel, he served Moses vision.  Moses had these kind of plans all the time.  As long as Moses hands stay above his head, then Joshua would win.  If you are Joshua, your training and size of your army didn’t matter.  Your fate was litterately in the hands of an old man. This just sounds ridiculous.  

Joshua would have never been put in charge had he not first served Moses vision.  Submitting to a person is hard.  They are imperfect and do things different than we think they should.  Kind of like my parents in high school.  We think as we get older we are above this but we are not.  

I know this rubs wrong because we want to think we are smarter and above this.  It is not true.  Who’s vision do you need to submit to?  Did you know division means two visions?  Not one bad or one good, just two different vision.  Rebelion is trying to build a vision different than the person in charge.  

Who are you submitted to that if they tell you no you will do as they say?  If you don’t have an answer you are in a dangerous place. 

If you have that person, today thank them for what they do for you.  If you do not, ask God who He wants to play that role.

Live a Better Story

Brandon Sereg

How to Change the World… Part 2

What you do with “NO” sets the trajectory of your life. 

I am parenting a 2 year old strong willed little girl.  I am teaching her the meaning of NO.  Most of the time she is climbing on something or getting into something.  If she does not obey, it usually ends up in a short fall or a little mess.  I need her to respond to NO correctly.  There will be a day we are playing near a street or she is climbing towards the hot stove.  If she does not obey NO then, she could get really hurt or worse.  Every year 400 kids die by getting hit by a car.  

As she gets older, no impacts what she sees on TV when I am not watching.  As a teenager, it is how she drives and relates to boys.  When she is a young adult it impacts her ability to keep a great job or she treats alcohol.  No will impact her friendships and her relationship with God.

“NO” is one of the most important words she will ever respond to.  What she does with “NO” sets the trajectory of her life.

Joshua was a young leader under Moses leadership.  He was by far not a perfect leader.  He did not enter the promised land because he did not respond to “No” given by the Lord. Before Joshua led the Israelites into that land, he had a no.  Moses was a prophet, and one day the Spirit of the Lord fell on the elders of Israel and they started to prophecy.  By the way, what is prophecy?  Prophecy is hearing what God says and saying what you hear.  Joshua hears these men doing what Moses does and he wants to stop it.  These men are trying to remove Moses from leadership.  Moses in this instance gets it right.

Numbers 11:26 Two men, Eldad and Medad, had stayed behind in the camp. They were listed among the elders, but they had not gone out to the Tabernacle. Yet the Spirit rested upon them as well, so 

they prophesied there in the camp. 27 A young man ran and reported to Moses, “Eldad and Medad are prophesying in the camp!”

28 Joshua son of Nun, who had been Moses’ assistant since his youth, protested, “Moses, my master, make them stop!”

29 But Moses replied, “Are you jealous for my sake? I wish that all the Lord’s people were prophets and that the Lord would put his Spirit upon them all!”30 Then Moses returned to the camp with the elders of Israel.

Joshua has a choice.  Push the issue or submit to authority.  Here is the 2nd way to change the world. 

Willing to submit to Godly authority

I am a follower of Jesus, husband, dad, pastor, and friend. In every one of those areas, I am only as strong as the men (because I am a man) who can tell me “No” and I will submit.  I choose to submit to their Godly leadership and council. 

So who can tell you “No” and when you disagree you will submit.  You are only as strong as that list.  Ask God who needs to be on that list.

Live a Better

Brandon Sereg

 

How to Change the World… Part 1

A man born a slave has no idea, he has a destiny of leading a nation into become a world super power. For hundreds of years, a nation hoped for the promise of God to come.  That promise was called “the promise land.”  A young man named Joshua has become the assistant to the legend in Moses.  Joshua has been a slave his whole life, until one year when a man named Moses led him and his whole nation to freedom.  Joshua saw God send plagues to bring the greatest nation to its knees.  He saw the Red Sea part and then crash on the greatest army.  He saw food appear out of nowhere every day.  

Joshua later leads Israel into the promise land and conquers the people living in the land decisively. He actually conquers 31 kings in 31 days.  Amazing.  I think all of us would love even a taste of that kind of success and leadership.

So I want to spend the next couple weeks talking with you about what Joshua did that set him up to make such a huge difference.

Exodus 33:It was Moses’ practice to take the Tent of Meeting and set it up some distance from the camp. Everyone who wanted to make a request of the Lord would go to the Tent of Meeting outside the camp.

Whenever Moses went out to the Tent of Meeting, all the people would get up and stand in the entrances of their own tents. They would all watch Moses until he disappeared inside.

11 Inside the Tent of Meeting, the Lord would speak to Moses face to face, as one speaks to a friend. Afterward Moses would return to the camp, but the young man who assisted him, Joshua son of Nun, would remain behind in the Tent of Meeting.

The first thing I take away from Joshua is…

Joshua separated from the crowd.

Joshua knew God’s power and knew Moses knew God differently from the rest of Israel.  Joshua wanted something different and knew he had to live different.  His lifestyle was different.  We all know going with the crowd is easy, especially when it comes to God.  When you live different, you stand out and people notice.  This different make them naturally uncomfortable, which is why most people just go with the crowd. They are afraid of being different.  Joshua wanted to know the God who purchased his freedom and would live a lifestyle that invited God into who he became.

Joshua had different relationships.  Joshua spent his time with Moses, Caleb, and Aaron.   He did not spend his time with the complainers called Israel.  It is amazing how quickly being around a complainer that their negativity rubs off. Studies show we are the average of our 5 closest relationships.  So all of us should choose wisely. 

Lastly, Joshua separated from the crowd by living by different standards.  I will talk about this more in weeks to come, but the standards how what he ate, drank, talked about, spent time doing, were not normal.  

To change the world that we live in we have to first separate from the crowd.  Side note… if you have to remind someone you are separated from the crowd, you are not separate from the crowd.  

So what do you need to do this week to separate from the crowd?

Live a Better Story

Brandon Sereg

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