You Are In Control of Your Choices Romans 8:13 “For if you live according to the flesh, you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the misdeeds of the body, you will live.” A common boundary problem is disowning our choices and trying to lay the...

Is Complying the Same as Lying? 1 John 4:18 ““Fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.”” Many Christians fear that setting and keeping limits signals rebellion or disobedience. Individuals remain trapped in endless activities of...

Are You A People-Pleaser or Respect-Receiver? Galatians 1:10 “ “Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.”” You have choices and have...

A Test Of Trust Philippians 2:3 “ “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.”” The extent to which other people are concerned about their impact on you is the extent to which you can trust them. You trust...

Why Set Boundaries? 1 Corinthians 5:10-11 ““You must not associate with anyone who claims to be a brother or a sister but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or slanderer, a drunkard or swindler.”” Is it really necessary to set boundaries with “bad” people? Why...

Honesty Proverbs 9:8 "Do not rebuke mockers or they will hate you; rebuke the wise and they will love you." One of the most important things that you can do in a dating relationship that is getting anywhere near serious is to be honest about hurt and conflict. If you...