Scripture:
“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” Proverbs 27:17
Lesson:
This week, we are going to focus on how to find a sponsor and/or an accountability partner.
How Do I Find a Sponsor and/or Accountability Partner?
- They must be the same gender as you.
- Listen to people who share their story/testimony. Do you relate to what is spoken?
- Get to know the person before you ask them to be your sponsor or accountability partner. Ask them to go out for coffee.
- If someone declines to be your sponsor or accountability partner, do not take it as a personal rejection.
- Ask God to lead you to the sponsor/accountability partner of His choosing. He already has someone in mind for you.
What is the difference between a sponsor and an accountability partner?
A sponsor is someone who has worked through the eight principles and 12 steps. The main goal is to choose someone to guide you through the program. The sponsor’s role is that of a “coach”.
An accountability partner is someone you ask to hold you accountable for certain areas of your recovery or issues, such as attending meetings, journaling, etc. The person can be at the same level of recovery as you are, behind you, or ahead of you. The main goal is to encourage each other. The accountability partner or group acts as the “team”.
Life Application:
Having a sponsor and/or an accountability partner is key to your recovery journey. They are the ones who keep us going when we want to give up. My sponsors/accountability partners are the ones I can be the most vulnerable with. I know they will love and support me through my struggles and my victories. This week, list the names of possible sponsors or accountability partners. We were never meant to deal with our hurts, habits, or hang-ups alone.
*Celebrate Recovery meets Tuesday nights at the McVay Family Center in New Sharon. This is a safe place to find honesty, hope, and healing. The meal starts at 6 pm, and the lesson begins at 6:30 pm. Hope to see you there!
